im 13 and live in bulgaria and i really like this guy who is 18 and he want to have sex with me is that ok?
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1 :
No.
2 :
NO IT AINT GIRL THATS A PAEDOPHILE RIGHT THERE. BREAK UP WID HIM RIGHT NOW!
3 :
f no lol first theres a 5 yr difference second hes probably just using you third hmm third... if this isnt ur first, then go for it lol
4 :
It is centainly not ok...just tell him to wait if he does love you he will wait if he does not then he just wants you body so dont do it cuz u will regret afterward ^^
5 :
yeah i say go a head i had s.e.x at 10 - with my 19yo nextdoor girl-friend i'm 19 now and i'll always remember that awesome day
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. (im sorry but im really against the idea.)
7 :
im sorry but that is sooooooooo wrong im 15 and still havent had sex and i dont know if i want to yet http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkZOj0CRv_aF4bkKjBGnvu_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080714021442AAqKShp
8 :
first of all noooooooooooooo!!!!!! you can start having sex when you can support 2 more ppl. whether she is preg or not. he is using u i know it
9 :
why do you want to have sex, hun you are way to young enjoy life be a kid. You have all your life to have sex and that guy needs to find someone closer to his age. Don't throw your life away. I work with teens and one of my girls has a child and she is 13, it is the hardest thing in the world for her. So I say wait don't rush.
10 :
i don't think that's a smart idea. if you were to say someone the same age, then it might be a different story, but you don't know if this guy will just use you to just 'hit it then quit it'. this guy is just being a pig. trust me. you also take the risk of getting pregnant.
11 :
HI Magie, are you absolutely and totally crazy. In most, if not all countries, it would be illegal. Apart from that issue, at 13 you may be physically developed enough, but there is absolutely no way that you would be able to handle any emotional outcome, like if you got pregnant, or he just used you for sex then dumped you. Apart from that, in most countries, that would be classed as rape, and he would end up in prison if not worse. Enjoy your childhood, wait for adult things until you are a proper adult, and at least 16. I have a feeling if your family found out, this guy would suffer. Take care and think seriously about what I, and probably most other people have said in reply. mike t,
12 :
Heck no. Think about the consequences that will happen to u after u do that...
13 :
Yes, when I was 13, I felt the need to have sex, but I knew it was a bad idea, so I left that aside. Wanting sex at 13-15 is normal, your going through puberty.. But make sure you do not have sex at 13, because this could lead to major problems that you cannot handle. Dont think about boyfriend..or sex..or anything, till your 15..AT THE VERY LEAST.
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