im seriously starting to fall in love with my boyfriend but he lives in bulgaria and i live in vegas =[ he's one of the most amazing guys ive ever met and he loves me but he might have AIDS now and i really wanna be with him but idk what to do. should i stay with him and try to go see him when i turn 17 or something??
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Really, find a disease-free guy who lives within 50 miles of you.
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I'm sure anyone else who responds to you will also say that its hard to trust anyone online these days, especially since you are a young girl. I'd avoid going to see him until he comes here first. Don't hide him from anyone. Let your friends and family know about him so they will be there to support you and meet him whenever he comes. Since you are so young this will be hard to do at first. Only time will allow him to gain everyone's trust. The hardest part is to prove that he is telling the truth. Chat to him over time and see if everything he says makes perfect sense. If he has real intentions for you he will call you, send you things for your birthday and really wants to get to know you and your family. What you want to avoid is getting tricked and hurt, both physically and mentally. You are young and a long distance relationship is not easy to handle. AIDS is deadly. People usually get AIDS from having sex with multiple partners or from IV drug use. If a guy does any kinds of these activities, then he is not the one for you.
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well, dear, it's so stragne coincidence coz this summer i was in vegas and i'm from bulgaria too....i hope ur bfriend is not any of my friends...just because that about AIDS thing really worries me. anyway, first of all, i wanna advice u if u had (and u probably had) sex with him to make an AIDS test as soon as possible!! as i read, u r under 17....so its normal to be really emotional and love him very strong but u have to think about the pros and cons here....can u leave ur life in us?? u have no idea how it is like here, in bulgaria. i dont mean it's bad, it's not, but it's totally different...and what about ur family and especially ur mom? and r u sure u can trus him so much ...that he will take of u in bulgaria? and probaly u have to talk to ur parents..i dont know. this is really important decision. besides, have u talked to him about coming in bulgaria? r u sure he wants it and he is as much in love with u as u?? good luck!
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Go to BG and look around! the best bulgarian guys are not in Las Vegas! We are here! At home...
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